Marriage is like going to a restaurant. You order what you want, then when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that.

Hardly any subject can get a writer in as much trouble with readers as the societal phenomenon known as the “open marriage” or at least absence of marriage fidelity by one of the partners. The cult classic on the topic is Sex At Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for […]

Whoopee!!! It’s Opening!!!!

One (of several) not-well-thought-out restrictions the City pronounced in its Covid protection rush was closing the spaced swimming lanes at the YMCAs of Honolulu. (The others included no park or beach use, then “solo” use, allowing customers to go to car showrooms but not furniture stores, and favoring big box merchants over small retailers selling […]

This Will Be The New Normal

I won’t be going to any movie theater until Covid-19 is dead and buried. Maybe not even afterward either. I’ve gotten too comfortable with movies at home by way of web streaming. It’s much cheaper. It’s less hassle. It’s probably the future. The downside is that good, new movies such as Tenet won’t be immediately […]

Well Done, Mayor Caldwell !

A lot of Oahu citizens do not like Kirk Caldwell, slam him in print and on the internet. Says they’ll absolutely not vote for him for governor in 2022. They dislike him because of the train cost, the good-or-the-bad about closing B&Bs and TVUs, those Kahuku windmills so close to homes and a school, the […]

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